A Regencycore Dream in Buffalo, NY

Planning the Perfect Blue-Themed Bridal Shower


In an era where Netflix's Bridgerton has captured our collective imagination, there's something utterly enchanting and romantic about incorporating Regency-era elegance into modern celebrations. Today, I'm thrilled to share a sophisticated blue-themed bridal shower that masterfully blends Victorian charm with contemporary luxury.

A blue themed bridal shower in an industrial loft with brick interior and large windows.  The table is decorated with white and blue flowers and dishwear. All the ladies have blue floral print dresses.

Step into a world where Bridgerton meets modern elegance in this enchanting blue-themed bridal shower. Vintage blue-and-white patterned plates set the stage for a celebration worthy of the ton, while lush arrangements of powder blue hydrangeas and ivory roses create an atmosphere of refined luxury. From hand-decorated cookies to a curated charcuterie display, every detail blends Victorian charm with contemporary sophistication.

A flat lay of bridal shower invitations with an English china pattern.  Layers of blue chiffon, hydrangea florets, and stamps help set the elegant and vintage tone.

Chinoiserie style invitations set the tone for your guests, provided by Graphic Poetry.

Setting the Tone: The Invitations

The celebration began long before the guests arrived, with the delivery of exquisitely crafted invitations. Each envelope contained a delicate piece of art – vintage-inspired cards adorned with blue toile patterns reminiscent of fine English china. The detailed flourishes and elegant script immediately transported guests to a world of refined sophistication.

A tablescape straight out of the Victorian era.  Layers of blue fabrics, florals, and candles give hint to this romantic set.  Blue and white china patterned vases and tableware highlight the white roses and blue hydrangeas.

Setting the tone; An intimate bridal shower in the penthouse at The Loft at 537 Main. The brilliant table settings were provided by Stems Glass Co and florals by Moran’s Blooms.


A Table Worthy

of the Ton

The centerpiece of our celebration was an absolutely stunning tablescape that would make Lady Danbury proud. We layered vintage blue-and-white patterned plates, each one unique yet harmoniously coordinated. The mix of Wedgwood-inspired designs, delicate florals, and intricate borders created a collected-over-time feel that's so essential to authentic Victorian styling.

A bride's hands can be seen holding a vintage silver tea pot in the foreground.  Lovely white roses, blue hydragneas and dephinuims spray out of white and blue china patterened vases.  Warm light comes in from a window amongst several candles.

An antique silver tea pot offers that old world touch to to the delicate floras by Moran’s Blooms and decor by Stem’s Glass Co.

Floral Fantasies

The floral arrangements were nothing short of a Georgian dream, featuring:

  • Powder blue hydrangeas

  • Ivory garden roses

  • Delicate dusty miller

  • Wispy delphiniums

  • Soft white babies breath

These blooms were arranged in delicate porcelain vases, creating varying heights that drew the eye throughout the space. The soft ivory flowers provided the perfect contrast to the deeper blue elements, creating a sense of depth and luxury.

A charcuterie feast fit for a brunch bridal shower.  Multi levels of meats, cheeses, bagels, muffins, cookies, fruit, and more.  Delicate sprigs of babies breath, blue hydrangeas, and Something blue custom cookies tie the feast into the theme.

A charcuterie spread fit for a queen and her consorts—provided and styled by The Grazeful Gatherer.

A Feast for the Ages

The refreshments took inspiration from both modern trends and historical elegance. The piece de resistance was an artfully curated charcuterie spread, arranged with the precision of a Victorian garden maze. Various cheeses, fruits, and meats were displayed on vintage wine crates, accented by sprigs of white babies breath, blue hydrangeas, and custom Something Blue themed bridal shower cookies pull the theme into this feast. Other flavors were complemented by:

  1. Artisanal crackers

  2. Blueberries, strawberries, grapes, dried apricot

  3. Candied nuts

  4. Fresh berries and dried fruits

  5. Bagels and muffins (perfect for brunch)

  6. Cookies

  7. Quiche

  8. Petite potatoes

  9. ‘Something Bleu’ (perfectly on theme!) bleu cheese and strawberry salad

A tower of stacked bagels makes design and function come together for your brunch bridal shower.  Surrounded by candles, flower sprigs, cut pineapple, mini muffins, and brie.
A charcuterie spread showcasing grapes, folded meets, maple cookies, mini cinnamon rolls, and dried apricots, decorated with a sprig of rosemary.
A wine crate adds levels to this charcuterie spread, including fresh fruits, cookies, breads, spreads and cheeses, and mini cinnamon rolls.  Prefectly coordinates with sprigs of white babies breath and blue hydrangeas.
Four ldaies in floral print dresses gather around a vintage blue and white themed table.  They are tasting different custom made bridal shower cookies.

Custom cookies should be on the top of your Bridal Shower To Do list: styled and provided by Darling Dough_716.

Sweet Endings

The custom cookies were perhaps the most Instagram-worthy detail of the afternoon. Each one was hand-decorated with intricate blue and ivory royal icing designs featuring:

  • Something Blue Before I Do

  • Diamond rings

  • Floral patterns matching the China

  • Monogrammed letters

  • Future Mrs.

Two women hold up their custom made bridal shower cookies.  One is a color themed diamond ring.  The other says Something Blue Before I do, with a bite taken out of it.

Bridgerton-Inspired Details

To fully embrace the Regencycore aesthetic, you incorporated several nods to the beloved series:

  • Handwritten place cards with calligraphy

  • Crystal decanters filled with signature cocktails

  • Vintage teacups for serving Earl Grey

  • Blue silk ribbons draped across chair backs

  • Antique silver candlesticks with ivory tapers

  • A Flower wall

A bridal shower guest in a feminine blue floral chiffon dress poses in front of a blue and white flower wall.

‘The Charlie’ flower wall provided by BFLO Photo Bomb.

Planning Tips

For those inspired to host their own blue-themed Victorian shower:

  1. Start collecting vintage plates months in advance through antique shops and online marketplaces or rent from the experts!

  2. Mix different shades of blue to create depth and interest

  3. Incorporate metallic elements through silver and gold accents

  4. Don't forget the small details – ribbon-tied napkins, place cards, and menu cards

  5. Consider hiring a calligrapher for that authentic Victorian touch

Remember, dear readers, the key to creating this magical atmosphere lies in the layering of details. Each element should tell a story, creating a cohesive narrative that transforms an ordinary afternoon into an extraordinary celebration worthy of the social season's finest gathering.

After all, as Lady Whistledown might say, "It is not merely a bridal shower we are planning, but rather, a moment in time that shall be remembered throughout the ages."

Happy Planning!

Credit for all of the collaboration:

Planning:  Upstate Indie Weddings

Assistant Coordinator:  Maddie Jensen

Venue:  The Loft at 537 Main

Decor:  Stem’s Glass Co

Stationery:  Graphic Poetry-GP Invitations

Apparel:  Bridal Chateau (Feather satin robe, Sequin short wedding gown, Floral party dresses)
and Parrti On (Ivory Shower Dress)

Photography: Jess Trankle Images and Photography by Alexandra

Videography: Brett Deneve 716

Food:  The Grazeful Gatherer

Sweets:  Darling Dough_716

Florist: Moran’s Blooms

Favors & Gifts:  The Clean Bee Organics

Flower Wall:  BFLO Photo Bomb

Hair:  Lux Hair Salon and Hair by Jo

Makeup:  Beauty By SCF 

Models:  Felicia,  Haleigh,  Bridget,  Cristal

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